Hiding From The Kids in My Prayer Closet by Jessica Kastner

Hiding From The Kids in My Prayer Closet by Jessica Kastner

 This is one of the most humorous and real books on motherhood I have ever read! Throughout the whole book, I laughed aloud. Yet I also was impressed that each chapter finishes with deeper thoughts and applications. The author seems to have a balanced perspective on life and motherhood! She knows (for the most part- none of us are perfect!) when to laugh and when to ponder what God is teaching her.

Personally, I could never relate to Jessica's personality motherhood-wise. Sound confusing? Simply: Jessica never dreamed of getting married and having babies and wasn't really attracted by infants or children. I am quite the opposite. My 7th birthday party was a cute ''baby shower'' theme, with things for my baby doll. Somehow, I've always felt the need to marry and have children. Nevertheless, I was able to chuckle over Jessica's unusual character. I loved how she allowed God to change her and make her a fun and loving mom. In this book, she is honest and humble and gives mothers a new perspective on what parenting is all about.

I received a copy of this book from the publisher in exchange for my honest opinion.

Finding grace and laughter when motherhood gets real

Soon after Jessica Kastner became a mother, she wondered if she was the only mom who found pretend play more boring than watching playdough harden and who dreaded yet another friend's Instagram post of homemade deliciousness.

In Hiding from My Kids in the Prayer Closet, Kastner shares her experience as an "unmom"-a mom who loves her kids more than she loves the daily experience of mothering. She helps readers laugh at the ridiculous, delight in the unpredictable, and enjoy being the mothers God made them to be.

Jessica Kastner is an award-winning journalist and a contributor for the Christian Broadcasting Network's CBN.com, Beliefnet.com, and the Huffington Post's Christianity blog. As Connecticut's coordinator for Straight Ahead Ministries, she shares God's message of hope by leading Bible studies in juvenile detention centers. When she's not on the trampoline with her three boys in Connecticut, Jessica shares her unapologetically "real" commentary on the Christian life at www.JessicaKastner.com.

Pitchin' A Fit!: Overcoming Angry and Stressed-Out Parenting by Israel Wayne, Brook Wayne

Pitchin' A Fit!: Overcoming Angry and Stressed-Out Parenting

by Israel Wayne, Brook Wayne

Perhaps you think you have control over your emotions...perhaps you have life organized....but then you become a parent and everything changes. Emotions surface which you never knew you had, or which had been dormant for most of your adult years! You may find yourself stressed out as you try to create the perfect family atmosphere and fail daily. The only solution is found in Christ. He is the only One who can give strength, direction and peace. Through him, order can be made of even the most disfunctional family schedules and patterns. In Pitchin' a Fit, Israel and Brook Wayne share Biblical wisdom and advice to other parents on how to parent according to God's plan. Of course even non-Christians would benefit from this book as it has practical examples of how to instill responsibility in children, how to apologize to your children, etc. I recommend this book for everyone! 

This book: 

- Provides practical and biblical solutions to get to the other side of the issue 
- Gives hope and freedom from the tyranny of stressed-out and angry parenting 
- Offers solutions that are ideal for any family. 

I received this book from the publisher in exchange for my honest opinion.

My Name is Mahtob book review

Many of your know of the movie ''Not Without My Daughter''- this is a companion book to that bestseller, an autobiography written by the daughter herself. For the first time, read in print the thoughts and feelings and drama of the life Mahtob lived both during the time in Iran and afterwards. See how this traumatic experience changed her and shaped her. This book is an autobiography but it also raises awareness for several social situations. Last but not least, it is a testimony to the author's Lutheran faith. It also is a wonderful example of how a hurt human being can, with God's help work hard and achieve success despite the troubles endured as a child. Since I have never watched the film Not Without My Daughter or read the book, I can assure  all interested readers that this book is worth reading on its own as well. However, now that I have read this book I look forward to reading Not Without My Daughter as well!

The first half or so of this book flowed really well but I found that the remainder of the book was slower. It didn't quite drag, but it didn't have the same consistency and order as the first half. The last portion was more a scattering of thoughts and feelings with no obvious chronological order.

Note: Although the book tries to bring out the author's faith, it will not offend readers of any religion. This is an autobiography and can be read simply as such.

I received a copy of this book from the publisher in exchange for my honest opinion. 

2016 book review Raising Grateful Kids in an Entitled World by Kristen Welch

Raising Grateful Kids in an Entitled World: How One Family Learned That Saying No Can Lead to Life's Biggest Yes

by Kristen Welch

   From the first page of this book, I knew I could trust the author's sound Biblical wisdom and advice. The information contained within these chapters is reasonable and yet life-changing. Every parent would greatly benefit from reading this new book and putting into practice the truths within the pages.  Also, the adult reading it just may be convicted as to their own selfishness and sense of entitlement in life. Where there is Biblical wisdom, God will do great things. I am not even a parent yet I found myself excited and motivated as I read this book, knowing I can use the methods with my younger siblings and to change my own selfish attitudes! The author, Kristen Welch delivers her information in this book with both love and understanding and firmness. 
All families would greatly benefit from reading and putting into practice the wisdom in these pages.

I received a copy of this book from the publisher in exchange for my honest opinion.

More about the book...

"But everyone else has it." "If you loved me, you'd get it for me!" When you hear these comments from your kids, it can be tough not to cave. You love your children--don't you want them to be happy and to fit in?Kristen Welch knows firsthand it's not that easy. In fact, she's found out that when you say yes too often, it's not only hard on your peace of mind and your wallet--it actually "puts your kids at long-term risk." In "Raising Grateful Kids in an Entitled World," Kristen shares the ups and downs in her own family's journey of discovering why it's healthiest "not" to give their kids everything. Teaching them the difference between "want" and "need" is the first step in the right direction. With many practical tips and anecdotes, she shares how to help kids become hardworking, fulfilled, and successful adults.It's never too late to raise grateful kids. Get ready to cultivate a spirit of genuine appreciation in your family and create a home in which your kids don't just say--but "mean"!--"thank you" for everything they have.

2016 Book review: Strong and Kind by Korie Robertson

Strong and Kind: And Other Important Character Traits Your Child Needs to Succeed

by Korie Robertson, Chrys Howard, Willie Robertson 

I am always so excited when I see another Robertson book has been published! And of course I am delighted that I get to read and review it before it even comes out in book stores!
When I saw Strong and Kind available to review, I grabbed it up immediately!
I began reading it one evening and nearly finished it in one sitting- it was that good!
Of course, I hope to reread it more slowly and thoughtfully, but initially I love to just devour good books. I was still able to glean so much from the chapters of this book. And me not even a parent! The lessons I learned were wonderful for me as an older sibling as well as me as a person. Seriously- many of the thoughts and wisdom in this book were enough to make me chide myself for my disrespect and unloving attitudes towards my elders and friends! So, my conclusion is that whether you are a parent or not, this book will definitely help you! 

For parents, I highly, highly recommend this book. The authors are both firm and kind in their advice. They understand parenthood and they understand children and love them for who they are. But they also know from experience how to raise children to become mature, responsible adults and therefore parents should trust the Biblical advice they present in this new book! 

I received this book from the publisher in exchange for my honest opinion. 

Book review of Bronner: A Journey to Understand by Sherri Burgess 2016

Bronner: A Journey to Understand 
by Sherri Burgess

I read this book in one day, so easy was it to step into and connect with. 

The story cannot help but capture the heart and emotions of the reader. My heart wept for the mother and family and friends of Bronner. Yet, as the mother and author of the book would desire, I got a wonderful sense of God's presence and faithfulness and plan amidst the trial. This book is a marvelous testimony of God's love and faithfulness. Truly, Bronner's tragic tale will bring you closer to Christ. This book wasn't as preparatory for trials as I would have desired and it isn't entirely a book for healing after a tragedy...it is a testimony of God's goodness through tragedy and I think that is what the author wished her book to be. 

  To be truthful, I was confused a few times because of some of the grammar and phrasing. I decided that it was simply because I hadn't heard the story before, thus leaving me lost at random moments. I would say that the author assumes the reader has heard all the cold details of the tragedy before reading this book. Nevertheless, it wasn't terribly confusing. Anyone (like me) can pick up this book and understand the Burgess family's story. 

   Lastly, there are a few doctrinal things in this book which I disagree with but which I will leave unmentioned at this time for fear of hurting anyone. 

I received a copy of this book from the publisher in exchange for my honest opinion. Thank you. 

Book review: #Struggles: Following Jesus in a Selfie-Centered World by Craig Groeschel

#Struggles: Following Jesus in a Selfie-Centered World

by Craig Groeschel

I picked up this book to read last night and could hardly put it down! Every chapter was so relevant and well presented with wisdom from the Lord that I was deeply convicted. The author writes this book with humility and understanding yet with backbone of power from God and His word. This book is a must-read for everyone living today! It is not solely directed to those who seem to be addicted with selfie-taking or even social media. This book targets the reason behind the overwhelmingly-rising trend of selfies and social media and will leave you changed and ready to face life with a better understanding of what JESUS wants of you!!!

We all love the benefits of technology and social media, but even with the incredible upsides, many of us suspect there are unintended negative consequences that are beyond our control. We’ve lost perspective, even perhaps ourselves.

Capture the Moment photographic book review

Capturing the Moment: Inspiration and Techniques for the Modern Photographer

by Sarah Wilkerson

   Sometimes, you can judge a book by its cover!  When I saw the exquisitely beautiful photograph on the front of this book, I knew I had to get my hands on the volume! And I was not disappointed. This quality-bound hardcover book is absolutely filled with beautiful photographs capturing the joys and wonder of childhood as well as other small yet important details of life. Can coffee table books get any better? This book will be sure to delight every person, whether a photographer or not! I am an amateur photographer and I am looking forward to being inspired by the pictures contained within this work of art. All the photographs contained within the pages are all contributed by members of the online community called Clickin Moms. To understand more about the group as well as this new book, read the following; 

The premier online community for female photographers, Clickin Moms presents a photography guide featuring big, bold images coupled with short, focused, prescriptive tips for translating everyday life into stunning works of art.

Clickin Moms is the photography industry's largest social network of female photographers, boasting a booming members-only community of more than 16,000 professional photographers, aspiring professionals, and women passionate about capturing their families' everyday lives. This guide captures the spirit of the community by featuring a compilation of stunning member-contributed images paired with photography tips progressing from elementary to advanced, leaving no skill level unserved. By letting the images dominate and keeping the teaching points short and direct, the book builds on the highly visual appeal that has made the online community so popular. Covering all the bases, including equipment, composition, posing, low light, natural light, black and white, still life, and lifestyle photography, the example shots feature plenty of inspiration for photographing children as well as other beautiful everyday moments. Assignments for experimenting with lighting and shooting locations round out the chapters, providing every photographer with both the inspiration and skills she needs to capture life's beautiful moments as frame-worthy photographic art.

I received this book from the publisher in exchange for my honest review.

Book on parenting review: If Jesus Had A Child by Glenn Wilkerson

If Jesus Had A Child by Dr. B. Glenn Wilkerson


   You may not have any idea what this book is about, given its unusual name. However, it is simply a book on parenting.

   The book is written in a coherent and organized fashion which I highly appreciated. The text is large and easy to look at, and the chapters are full of interesting thoughts which are never redundant. 
The author is Dr. Wilkerson, who is recognized as one of the world’s foremost authorities on elevating the spiritual/emotional health and creating positive self-concepts in children. He is a Christian minister and is the President and founder of the ARKGroup, a non-profit organization dedicated to the well-being of children and students.
Most importantly in light of the subject of this book, Mr. Wilkerson is a Christian father! He has successfully raised several children who are in turn happily raising their own families. 

Although I am not a parent yet I was raised in a large family and still have several young siblings. I was able to view all the advice, wisdom and suggestions in the chapters of this book practically.
I will begin by saying that much of this book is good. Indeed, we must love our children unconditionally and never treat them wrongfully no matter how our parents raised us or how angry we may feel with our offspring at any moment.
However, there was some confusion throughout this book which would be detrimental to a Christian parent. I actually found this book more useful for a non-believing family. The book neglects to mention God. It neglects to view sin as a major flaw in a child's character. Thus, this book is mostly a parenting help manual- seeking to remedy situations instead of hearts and relationships.
Dr. Wilkerson seems very intent upon this new 'democratic' type of parenting which I don't think will be all that helpful to families. I quote from the author: 

"Misbehavior takes place only when children do not have their needs met."

I really cannot agree with this because every child is born with a sin nature- you can be the most perfect and loving of parents and your child will still sin...even rebel...there is only hope in Jesus Christ and his salvation. This latter subject was never mentioned in the book- I found this very odd.  I suggest you read this other review on the book.

Another quote from the book is: ''There are three basic human needs: the need to be loved and wanted; the need to feel powerful; and the need for life to be meaningful and fun. Dr. Dreikurs says that misbehavior occurs when children try to fill their unmet needs in inappropriate ways. He says that every bad behavior can be connected to a specific unmet need.''


I didn't appreciate some liberties Dr. Wilkerson took with Jesus' character. For instance, in the foreword the author states:
"I have even ventured to 'quote' Jesus, paraphrasing words and thoughts I think He might have in response to a given situation"

At another point in the book, the author takes the liberty of assuring the reader that Jesus made sure he and the disciples had ''a lot of fun'' and proceeds to mention the wedding at Canaa where Jesus was probably ''telling jokes''....later the author also mentions the fishing excursions as part of the fun times. Excuse me? Fishing wasn't what it is today in America! And I am sure that Jesus and the disciples had JOY but their goal wasn't FUN. And smiles yes, but jokes....ouch. 

In short, this book has some good points but too many wrong ideas to be of much value especially to Christian parents.

I received this book from the publisher in exchange for my honest review.

Book review: Becoming a Spiritually Healthy Family by Michelle Anthony

Becoming a Spiritually Healthy Family :Avoiding the 6 Dysfunctional Parenting Styles
by Michelle Anthony

   We've all had this moment, whether we recognize it or not. This attempt to take over the Director's chair. We grab a pen, write a script, and try to steer the story in the direction we think it should go. BUT...He's the only one who knows the characters, understands the plot line, and is weaving them all together toward the ending He intends. He hasn't hired us to write our on stories; He has cast us in HIS story. 
-from the first chapter of Becoming a Spiritually Healthy Family

   This is a new book published by David C. Cook, January 2015. 
   I am always drawn to such practical books as this! For one thing, I am a part of a large family and for another thing, I hope to someday have a family of my own! As I read this extremely practical book, I was able to relate to many of the instances included. 
Although I am not a parent yet, I was able to see myself in a few of the dysfunctional parenting styles! That said, I do recommend this book for those who have younger siblings, as well as those who wish to have a family in the future. The sooner you start learning how to parent well, the better. Such Biblical truths can never be out of our realm.
   The author of this new paperback book is Michelle Anthony. Michelle is the vice president of Learning Resourches and Family Ministry Architect at David C Cook. The author of several books on similar topics as the one I am reviewing, Mrs. Anthony has over 25 years of experience in church ministry. She is a children's and family pastor at her church in Colorado. Personally, I don't condone the latter for women, but I spent some time researching Michelle's beliefs and stances on current issues and was relatively pleased with the articles she endorses.
Her new book, Becoming a Spiritually Healthy Family is an excellent read, for both women and men. Men will not feel uncomfortable reading it since Mrs. Anthony doesn't take a leadership position in the book; rather she is humble and open with her writing. This is not a theology book; it is a useful book on parenting.
  I think most parents will greatly benefit from this book. The author not only addresses the many methods of dysfunctional parenting, she goes to the root and heart of the matter, explaining reasons why you as the parent may be parenting a certain way. She also mentions common and proven results of children who grew up with dysfunctional parenting. From the ''Can't say no'' parent to the ''Micro-managing parent'', Michelle Anthony covers 6 different dysfunctional parenting methods. Although I would hope this is not the case for every parent, you are sure to discover one of these methods which you have been practicing. With ''Becoming a Spiritually Healthy Family'' you can not only identify the problems in your parenting, but by the grace of God, cure them!

Practical ''Reflect and Respond” questions and exercises follow up every chapter in order to help you, the reader completely understand and put into practice what you just learned. 


A complimentary copy of this book was provided for review purposes. The opinions expressed are my own.

good book: Just 18 Summers

humorous. touching. inspiring!

   Rene Gutteridge and Michelle Cox present a new book which will touch your heart. Soon to become a motion picture, this novel is sure to appeal to and inspire all audiences- men as well as women, parents, siblings and anyone who is a part of a family.

  Although focusing on parenting, this book is wonderful for all members of families.
I know because I cannot claim that honored title of parent, yet I was greatly moved by this thought-provoking book.
I could hardly put it down, so real are the characters who come to life through the pages. At first I did find it a little confusing remembering all the characters but if you take the first few chapters slowly, you will have no problem getting to know the characters, who are all introduced in the first chapter.

   Four different families are struggling with parenting problems, whether they realize or admit it or not. All have been impacted by the joyful life of Butch Browning's late wife Jenny. Jenny's sister Beth is struggling with regret over lost time with her children who are now leaving home, Helen has spent her years as a mother vicariously, pouring into her children all that she wanted as a child yet is at a loss as to why she doesn't have her children's hearts, and first-time mom Daphne is driving herself-and even more so, her husband- distracted with attempts to create a perfect environment and future for her soon-to-be born child. The lessons presented in this novel are wonderful. The main purpose of this tale is to impress on parents and indeed, every individual, the importance of using our time wisely. As the admonition which inspired this book goes....''Don't forget- you have just 18 summers...take time to make some memories.''
I really appreciated the fact that at least two of the mothers in here were stay-at-home moms. It made it easier to relate to them. However, any women-stay-at-home or not can relate. And although I highlighted the women who are struggling in this book, the men have a major- and oftentimes humorous- part of this novel. Therefore I can imagine fathers enjoying it as well.

The authors write with a definite first-hand knowledge of human nature, human weaknesses, and God's unfailing power and mercy.

I was pleased to receive this book through Tyndale's blogger program. I was encouraged to state my entire opinion.